For me, it was an old habit to hang onto the past and I did it in so many ways. One thing I used to do is cling to what I thought was supposed to happen. I’d hang onto how I thought it SHOULD be. I had very little flexibility.
It’s so obvious, but I didn’t realize that the more flexible I am the more I am able to bend with the shifts and changes that life is sending me. I was less flexible because I was so convinced I knew how it SHOULD be and anything else was not acceptable. I created so much hardship for myself.
It’s stressful when we keep looking at things and thinking it’s wrong, it’s not right. We don’t recognize how arrogant it can be to constantly think we know how things SHOULD be.
I found great relief in simply realizing that, since I cannot see through all directions of time and space, and I don’t know what things are for (most of the time), why judge anything at all? It doesn’t ever make me happy and it just blocks the flow of Love and healing.
It’s a new habit to be open and flexible. The more flexible my mind is, the more open my heart is and the more available I am to the good.
We can not be rigid and judging AND also be open and receptive to good. These things don’t go together. We have to choose one or the other.
New habits can seem hard to make, but it’s about releasing the old habit and replacing it with the new one. Release and replace.
The new habit is so much more enjoyable and carries a much higher vibration of Love and Light and so it immediately becomes more enjoyable and that’s a sweet incentive.
It’s so hard to understand sometimes, but it’s true: Our willingness is ALL that’s required. Let’s go for it. New habits for a new life of Love! Yes! Are you in?
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