Archive for the ‘Forgiveness’ Category

Serve

Wednesday, August 16th, 2017

If I affirm there’s a problem that needs fixing then I’m firmly anchored in the thought that the Divine has disappeared; God has left the building. The only thing required for a healing is for me to see the situation rightly. As long as I see a problem it will be there for me to see. As long as I affirm that things aren’t right I won’t be able to see rightly.

My job, as a one who lives in service to the Light in all beings, is to remember the truth that sets us free.  I can take no breaks.  When I fall down, it hurts, and I’m not the only one who suffers.  With the help of the angels and the ascended masters, I get back up as quick as I can.  I am employed by God, Inc. and I AM ever so grateful to be of service this day.

The Infinite has no problems that elude its problem-solving abilities, because there are no problems in Divine Mind. It is I who sees the problem, affirms the problem, identifies the problem and collects all the evidence to support the existence of the big, bad problem. In each of these stages of problem identification I become increasingly convinced that the problem is real and threatening. It feels more and more like God has left the building and I need to solve this problem that is eating my life!

Forgiveness frees me.
Forgiveness is the release of my judgments and opinions.
My forgiveness frees us ALL.

Every problem is built on the often hidden belief that God has left the building. It can be very tricky to see that the fear that God is gone is the only problem. Since the Divine never goes on a vacation or hides it’s Divinity, the whole problem I’m creating a library of evidence to support is, in truth, completely a fabrication of a fearful mind. It’s all based on the false premise of: “What if I were separate from God?”

Healing happens when I recognize every challenge has come to help me be more loving, more kind, more compassionate, more in line with my Divine nature. End of story.

It’s so simple, and yet fear is pervasive unless I stand anchored in the truth of omnipresent Divinity. This is my job. This is my only job. All else I give to the One who has never left and can never leave. In my surrender I discover that my only prayer request is for the faith to know the Divine in every part of my life and always will be. The Holy Presence cannot leave the building, it IS the building and everything that surrounds it, everything it contains. God cannot leave me, nor can I leave God.

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Smile

Thursday, August 10th, 2017

A smile goes a long way to making our lives better.  Something I’ve learned is that if I start smiling – without any particular reason, I automatically feel better.  As I type these words, I’m smiling and feeling the difference that it makes!

When I was younger, I was angry a lot of the time.  My mind was often feeling insecure and threatened, and the way I coped with my feelings was to be angry a lot of the time.  The anger kept people from getting to close to me and that made me feel safer.  Because I often looked like someone who was angry, from time to time, older men would tell me to smile.  I hated that!  I hated being told what to do.  I hated the very idea that old men would command me to smile for them.

Now, I’m grateful that those old men told me to smile – they were Spirit helping me to realize that I was missing the opportunity to smile.  Even though I hated (that’s really how I felt) being told to smile, it helped me to realize that I needed to lighten up, and for that, I’m grateful.

Of course, there’s a difference between an authentic smile that comes from the heart and there’s the kind of smile that’s actually a cover up.  Fake smiles are different than smiles for no reason.

There are times when I’ve been able to offer a smile to people who were going through a rough time and it really supported them.  Don’t be stingy with your smiles!  Practice being generous with your smiles!  Your relationships will surely be improved if you smile more!  It costs you nothing. 🙂

I encourage you to experiment with your smiles!  I’m not kidding.  Practice smiling when you don’t really feel like it.  Notice when you’re wearing a fake smile, and when you can actually authentically smile and lift your mood.  See what you can discover about improving your life and the life of those around you.

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Believing What’s True

Thursday, July 27th, 2017

I find that something most spiritual seekers have a difficult time with is keeping the commitment to their own holiness – to really LIVING what they believe. For myself, I discovered that if I think I know something, but I don’t live it by applying it in my life, then I must not really believe it. In other words, I don’t have faith in it. If I don’t have faith in the truth, I don’t actually believe it.

If I believe that all thoughts produce form at some level and that all of my thoughts are creating my experience, and day after day, I’m struggling in misery, managing and coping with circumstances I don’t like – then clearly, I don’t believe that my thoughts create or I would change my thinking in order to have a new experience. Realizing this was so helpful to me in deciding to change my mind.

We can develop the mental, emotional, and spiritual commitment to live in alignment with our Spirit – Spirit WILL show us the way when we’re willing. Our little willingness really and truly is ALL that’s required! And we demonstrate our willingness by having faith in Spirit. Try it and see!

When we’re willing to keep our commitments to Spirit, our day improves, our health and finances improve, and our relationships DRAMATICALLY improve! When we forgo the right to complain and attack ourselves with our thoughts, our whole life improves. DECIDE to hold your commitment to Love and become accountable for your choices rather than a victim to circumstances. When you decide, the rest of life will align with you. Therein lies the power to transform your life! Go for it! I AM with you!

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Apologizing

Monday, July 17th, 2017

There’s a reason why making amends is one of the 12 steps in the Alcoholics Anonymous program. It’s essential to healing. Forgiveness is foundational to our awakening because regret, resentment, blame, and particularly, shame, are the big blocks to Love. Without an active practice of Love, we wither and are weak. We fall back into addictive and compulsive tendencies and temptations.

Regret is like a complaint against yourself.
Regret lowers your whole energy.
Complaining makes you a crap magnet.

Regret is a judgment against yourself.
All judgment produces fear.

Can you really justify continuing to live in regret?
Isn’t it a lot like living in a poopy diaper?
Is that what you really prefer?

One decision to forgive can change your whole perspective and your whole life.

One of the best ways to practice Love, forgiveness, and nonviolence is to be able to apologize with sincerity. We all do things that can hurt or offend others. When I’m alert to my feelings, I always regret anything I did that was unloving. Even so, sometimes, it can be very challenging to apologize. If I can’t apologize then I’m in a prison of my own making. It is a prison of fear and shame and that’s not a place I want to hang out in at all.

I’ve found that being able to apologize, being able to acknowledge my mistakes and oversights, and even my outright blunders, is a gift that continues to give. It gives me Peace and Harmony every day, for which I am extremely grateful. I’ve realized that it takes Self-Love and Humility first and foremost to be able to apologize. It can require courage and strength and a strong sense of personal honor to be able to admit a mistake and I’m very grateful to have found that in myself and make it a place from which I can live. Being able to apologize and make amends keeps my energy where it belongs – in my strong heart.

A gift I receive when I’m able to apologize is giving up the judgment that causes the fear of making a wrong step. This allows me to be more authentic. When I’m authentic I’m prepared for anyone else’s opinions.

I’ve learned that Self-forgiveness is key to letting go of the past.  You can get my free “How to Get Over It” forgiveness workshop on the homepage of JenniferHadley.com – it’s a great way to forgive yourself and start releasing the blocks, opening up the flow of Abundance and healing in all areas of your life.  Plus it’s free.  Self-forgiveness is a profound act of Self-Love

Practicing nonviolence and Self-Love in my relationship with myself means that I can easily make amends with others. Today, I love myself by apologizing to someone I’ve hurt. Today, I move the world in a direction of Peace through my own choice and actions of Love.

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I Harvest the Learning!

Friday, July 14th, 2017

Every day, I consciously anchor into a deep intention to be the greatest expression of Love that I can possibly be. Living inside this holy intention year after year, I became keenly aware that I was resolving and dissolving old habits of separation that I couldn’t tolerate in myself any more. One habit that has been so strong in my mind is the habit of making negative meaning out of the interactions in my life that confuse me.

When I felt needy and unsure about a relationship and that person didn’t return my call, I would imagine a negative reason for why they weren’t calling. I’d think it had to do with how they felt about me or how much they valued our relationship. Several times, I did this and later discovered that the reason they didn’t call was that something was preventing them. Something I never would have imagined – like a car accident or a lost phone. And yet, I had spent hours and days in upset because I jumped to the negative conclusion. I was creating such suffering myself. Little by little I began to be willing to see that suffering is optional. I create it through thoughts of wanting, needing, grasping, hatred and judgment.

People often rush to make negative meaning out of something and then cook up a big pot of resentment stew inside themselves. They ladle this stew all over everything they’re doing that day, that week, that year. When they finally connect with the person whose behavior is so hurtful to them they learn that it was all a simple misunderstanding. The entire pot of resentment stew has been labored over, cooked and seasoned for hours or days, months or years, now turns out to be completely fabricated. It was just a big waste of time and energy.

UNLESS, in that moment, of realization – when you see it was all a mis-take, a misperception, you forgive yourself and you DECIDE to harvest the learning and not allow yourself to do that again. You really can give up the habit of making yourself miserable. It takes real focus and attention to unwind these patterns, but there’s a Divine Alchemy that’s yours for the asking.  Spirit does the work for you when you’re willing.

Byron Katie tells us, “Fear has only two basic causes: The thought that I may lose what I have or the thought that I may not get what I want.” To that I would add, all fear is really the result of thinking we want something other than Oneness of all life. If we value separation, if we think that we want something that cannot be found within and that we must have it, we will always be suffering.

We could solve the world’s problems if we all gave up making resentment stew. We could certainly have peace on earth if we decided to give up the habit of making negative meaning out of circumstances. Isn’t that a great intention to set for this precious new year?

Today, I anchor Peace and Love in my experiences. I’m determined to hold the high watch for myself and for those around me and support them in anchoring, too. I intend to do my very best to make positive meaning out of life’s challenges and uncertainties. I intend to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, always. In this way my choices bring forth more Love in the world on a daily basis and they truly do make a profound difference. Today, I’m living in a new way in order to experience a new day and share it with everyone I meet.

Today, I harvest the learning from my experiences as I make positive meaning out of the events in my life. I hold the high watch for myself and choose to be Love, to see Love, and to receive Love all the live long day.  I say YES to Love!

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Blessings

Thursday, July 13th, 2017

In the first year of my yearlong Masterful Living Course, someone shared that their goal was to have their knee-jerk reaction be Love and compassion.  We all loved the feeling of that and we began to live with that aspiration.  Having a loving aspiration that’s the foundation of your life will naturally up level your whole life.

When life seems to squeeze you, what’s your default? Is your knee-jerk reaction to open your heart and strengthen your commitment to Love? Or do you go zero to sixty towards frustration and irritation?  Do you start defending or attacking?  Do you become offended easily?  I had all of these in spades.  I used to be so reactive. Now, I’m grateful that I have the capacity to breathe through the challenges, but I didn’t used to.  I’m not at 100% loving responses, but I’m getting closer every day.

What’s so cool is, these moments of challenge actually work FOR us.  There’s a blessing in every challenge if you’re willing to accept it.

What I notice is that life’s detours, delays, and challenges offer us the opportunity to deepen our practice and strengthen our commitment.  The challenges give us the opportunity to express more Love.  When we express more Love, we’re having more healing moments.

I once went to see the AMAZING horse show, Cavalia, as a guest of my dear friend, Ginny who is a horse lover and rider for decades. It was a spectacular show – so uplifting and inspiring! Thrilling to see the way the people and the horses worked together in perfect Unity and Harmony. What a gorgeous expression of Divine Creativity and Joy!

Afterward, in the parking lot, it was a very different story. We we’re sitting and waiting a long time while the traffic was static.  People weren’t that willing to move along in unison – it was “every man for themselves.” People were frustrated and getting out of their cars, impatient and upset that things weren’t going more smoothly.

I didn’t wish to join those around me in irritation and frustration so I prayed. I invited the angels to join us and direct the traffic through us. After all, we’re One Mind. We can do it if we choose.  I’ve learned that I don’t have to go with the crowd.  I can stay partnered up with Spirit and hold a higher vision for us all.  I can do it if I choose.

When there’s a challenge, do you move to prayer? Do you take a breath? Is your knee-jerk reaction to open your heart and extend compassion? I’ve actually learned that these every day challenges give me the perfect opportunity to deepen my practice and be a beneficial presence. We can even turn a parking lot into a sacred space.  I’m grateful for that.  I love practicing it!

What a difference it makes to have the aspiration each day to offer a blessing, receive a blessing, and BE a blessing!  Spirit does the heavy lifting of figuring out how when we allow.

I do believe we can change the default settings if we’re willing. I certainly have, and I’m continuing to up level. We’re always teaching the efficacy of our choices. Let us teach only Love for that is what we are. Now and forever!

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No Longer Waiting

Wednesday, July 12th, 2017

My beautiful friend, Laurie Schur is a poet, filmmaker, therapist, and all-round beautiful woman and she often shares wonderful and inspiring things with me like this poem.

Life at Midlife

I am no longer waiting for a special occasion; I burn the best candles on ordinary days.

I am no longer waiting for the house to be clean; I fill it with people who understand that even dust is Sacred.

I am no longer waiting for everyone to understand me; it’s just not their task.

I am no longer waiting for the perfect children; my children have their own names that burn as brightly as any star.

I am no longer waiting for the other shoe to drop; It already did, and I survived.

I am no longer waiting for the time to be right; the time is always now.

I am no longer waiting for the mate who will complete me; I am grateful to be so warmly, tenderly held.

I am no longer waiting for a quiet moment; my heart can be stilled whenever it is called.

I am no longer waiting for the world to be at peace; I unclench my grasp and breathe peace in and out.

I am no longer waiting to do something great; being awake to carry my grain of sand is enough.

I am no longer waiting to be recognized; I know that I dance in a holy circle.

I am no longer waiting for Forgiveness.

I believe, I Believe.

Mary Anne Perrone

In reading this beautiful poem, I’m so clear that I, too, am no longer waiting for things that I used to wait for when I was a younger woman.

I like to use the good china even if it’s just me.  I’m not waiting for a special occasion.  I can tell people I love them, without an excuse.   I love you.

I am grateful!

I am choosing to remember that I’m already as holy as holy can be and I’m not waiting to get there!  I am choosing to realize that I am already free and to go there in my mind – no more waiting!

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Faith, Belief & Vision

Tuesday, July 11th, 2017

Yesterday in my year-long Masterful Living Course, we were having a very powerful dialogue about healing the feeling of aversions in our relationships.  I feel so blessed and grateful for the deep sharing we have together and the ever-increasing willingness for us to have healing.  We’re all learning to ALLOW the healing at the deepest levels.

It takes tremendous willingness to recognize the healing opportunity that is before us when we feel frustrated, irritated, distrustful, worried, confused, angry, jealous, guilty, ashamed, or upset in any way.  That’s right, any form the upset takes is an indicator that a miraculous healing opportunity is being presented to us if we have the courage to rely upon Spirit to guide us through.

I’ve experienced paralyzing fear be turned into miraculously deepening faith and trust because of my willingness.  In this way, anyone’s willingness brings everyone benefit  – all boats rise on this tide of Love.  In this way, we can be heroic.

Right now, the action hero of the summer is Wonder Woman.  In the movie based on the Marvel comic character, Wonder Woman is faced with a challenging choice.  She has to decide either to leave her home, likely never to return, and go with a man she’s only just met, to fight and kill the God of War, and to protect the innocent women and children who are being threatened, or to stay where she is, and where she might be safe.

For Wonder Woman, there is no real choice.  Even though her loved ones fear that she doesn’t have the strength to fight the God of War, Wonder Woman must try.  She must at least do her best to protect the innocent from needlessly dying, and for the God of War to dominate humanity.  She cannot give in to fear.

Wonder Woman’s appearance in the worldwide cinema at this time is no accident.  We are awakening to the courage, strength and passion of the Divine Feminine, the Divine Mother, to bring forth the Divine Vision of the new heaven and the new earth.  This is the time we’ve waited for and it’s the personal healing activation that we are hear to anchor and bring forth for all beings.

Our willingness to be a loving presence is an active practice of faith and trust.  Our willingness naturally displays a belief in Spirit that our healing is possible – and that shift in consciousness allows the miraculous vision to come forth.  If we had no belief, no trust at all, we wouldn’t be able to have much healing.  Miracles would only be for special people.  Miracles are, in a sense, “contagious.” Our trust, faith and belief are healing activators that can restore the miraculous mindset to anyone’s life.

And that’s what we are, healing activators.  If we’re willing, Spirit will do the heavy lifting, show us the way, remove the obstacles, lift and carry us.  In this way, we are the living demonstration of Faith, Belief & Vision all while we’re learning how to have these precious qualities of God.

Trust and willingness are really one in the same.  In A Course in Miracles we’re told that trust is the #1 characteristic of the Teachers of God, upon which everything else rests.  We’re also told that our willingness is all that is required.  You cannot have willingness without trust and you can’t have trust without willingness. Together they call the healing into miraculous expression.  Trust and willingness go together, and they dissolve the appearance of obstacles.

Our willingness to hold a higher vision of Unity and Love is like a lightning rod for God’s goodness to flow into our life.  At times, it may seem as though we’re being tested in our ability to have faith and believe in the vision of Love for our lives.  While it seems like testing, it’s really strengthening exercises, perfectly designed to support us.

When we’re willing to have a high aspiration, to cultivate willingness and practice patience, kindness, generosity and compassion, we are a healing presence in this world.

Because our mind is the Mind of God, when we change our mind about the world, the world changes and becomes a more peaceful place.  Let’s learn to rejoice that we can change our mind.  When there seems to be a difficulty or an impasse in our relationships, let’s gratefully go first and move into forgiveness, nonjudgment, and a great willingness, with trust in Spirit.  Let’s live as healing activators for the whole human race and the earth! Let’s start today!

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Congruency

Monday, July 10th, 2017

I’ve learned that the primary key to my spiritual success is having my mind and my heart be aligned with the same intention. Living a loving, nonviolent life includes acting in congruency with Love itself. This requires following through on my inner guidance.

Have you ever asked the Universe for something and method for attaining it came in a way you didn’t want? Perhaps you wanted Peace in your family, and instead, you kept getting the message to visit your least favorite Aunt–to which you responded, “No, thanks.” What you didn’t know was that you were being guided to be the deliverer of the Peace!

A Course in Miracles tells us that the way to have something is to extend it.  “To have, give all to all.”   The best way to have Peace is to recognize that Peace is within and then share it.  When we kind of find the even a little bit of willingness to share, it’s a healing.  Isn’t the bonus opportunity to be able to recognize you are the one who brings it with you because it’s pre-installed?  We can learn how to value the willingness to look within.  Seek and ye shall find.  Willingness is the answered prayer.

When someone tells me they’re feeling distraught and a bit crazy, it’s usually quite evident that they are saying one thing and doing another. They aren’t congruent in heart and mind. They are split and that is the cause of their crazy feelings and behavior.  The answered prayer is congruency.

When I am congruent in my mind and heart then I can be as powerful as it is possible for me to be because there’s no conflict at the starting point of power in my world. My whole being is aligned and available for success. Self-sabotage has no place to land when my heart and mind are aligned with Love and congruent.

In his book, THE HEALING POWER OF PRAYER, mystic and healer Ron Roth, tells us that when we reject the guidance we receive, “Your prayer can no longer be answered because what you are hearing is the path to the answer, but you don’t want to hear it. Being alert to the form the answer may take is another aspect of congruency…”

Congruency in my thinking, my deepest heart’s desires AND my actions brings profound Peace. Congruency is well worth focusing on.  It leads to Peace, balance, Harmony, Freedom, and true Joy.  And there’s my answered prayer.

Today, I make a commitment to being congruent with Love and compassion in my thoughts, words and actions. If my guidance takes the form of a sudden impulse to write a letter, make a call or visit someone, I follow through knowing that the step I take is on a pathway to my answered prayer. In my daily choices and actions I move the world in the direction of Peace.

I feel so uplifted from our recent Living A Course in Miracles series of 11 free classes. I got to share so much about the expansion into Wisdom that’s unfolding for all of us. Sharing is so sweet! – the replays, downloads and transcripts are all free and available to listen to right now.  I’ve had so many emails from people telling me that they are really shifting their thinking and feeling so inspired and uplifted! YES!  Perfect for a long holiday weekend!

If you’re finding what I’m sharing to be helpful, won’t you please share at facebook and twitter to let others know?  Thank you!

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Blame

Sunday, July 9th, 2017

For decades, I gave myself permission to blame a lot of my challenges and my upsets on my family.  As a result, I caused myself and everyone else a whole lot of pain and misery.  I believed it wasn’t my fault that life was hard. It wasn’t my fault I felt so angry and upset most of the time.

Blaming others was like a little treasure to me. I treasured the belief that my problems were someone else’s fault. It meant I didn’t have to take responsibility.

My earnest study of the truth led me to many healing realizations and practices that allowed me to turn my PAIN and suffering into my POWER.  Taking responsibility for everything in my life really helped me to eliminate my feelings of pain and fear.

It was REALLY challenging for me to make such a big turn in my life – from blame to responsibility was a HUGE shift for me.  Intuitively, I knew it was the right thing to do.  I am so very grateful now.  I also learned that blame is not helpful, it’s actually quite destructive.

In many ways, blame felt addictive to me.  Whenever the slightest thing went wrong, I wanted to blame someone for it.  I still feel the urge to blame come up at times, and I am so grateful I can notice it and feel it and go the other way.

I had so much DOUBT about whether or not I had what it takes to develop the discipline to change my mind and have a new experience in my life.  That’s why I talk about it.  So often, I felt like a spiritual failure.  I didn’t feel truly successful until I put Spirit in-charge of shifting my life.  I took responsibility for the choices I made in the past, and I put Spirit in-charge of the future and I began to experience an enormous relief of pain.

Day by day, I began to discover what was possible for me. I went from doubting that I could ever develop the strength of mind to be peaceful, to REALIZING that I AM doing it! IT IS HAPPENING! God’s Love poured through me into all my relationships and made them whole.

It’s not that I don’t have challenges anymore, of course I do, but I don’t feel hopeless or helpless EVER anymore.  There’s very little worry and I know how to end it immediately.  I’ve learned through my personal experience of transformation that it’s essential to hold a bigger vision of Peace in our lives.  How can we have Peace when we’re blaming others for our problems?  Blame creates a deep sense of unrest and there’s no Peace in that thinking.  Peace comes from realizing that God is ALWAYS for us and never against us – and that’s how we’re designed to be.  We’re designed to always be loving and to live in a state of Peace.  We can get there.  We are doing it.  It IS happening NOW!

Forgiveness is a big part of being able to let go of blame.  Forgiving the debtors and the trespassers opens up the flow of Prosperity in your life.  It’s not just a matter of willingness, it helps to know HOW to forgive.  You can get my free “How to Get Over It” forgiveness workshop on the homepage of JenniferHadley.com – it’s a great way to start releasing the blocks and opening up the flow of Abundance – won’t you please share with someone now and open the flow for yourself?

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Reborn

Saturday, July 8th, 2017

Our spiritual reality is that we are continuously offered the opportunity to be born anew in the Spirit.  Every moment we can begin again because we can choose again.  Now is the perfect time for us to choose to release the old beliefs that are the cause of our suffering and to be born again in to an awareness of perfection that is our natural state.

NOW is the moment we are blessing ourselves and each other, or repeating the past.  We have the free will to make our choice.  Whatever we choose we learn from.  If we choose to align with the Higher Holy Spirit Self and BE the Presence of Love now we experience Joy-FULL remembering and re-learning.  If we choose to revisit and repeat the past, we experience painful learning.  It’s our choice.  Spirit does not judge our choices, only we do.

It seems easy to get caught in a web of false beliefs and forget who we are. It seems easy to forget to value the truth.  We lose our way when we become attached to a thought that’s not true – an opinion, a grudge, a grievance, or a complaint can take us on a downward spiral if we allow it. The truth is always available for us to remember and energize if we choose.  Each moment is a new opportunity for Love to flow in.

When we are born or re-born in the Spirit, it’s like emptying the cache in our computer browser. There’s no need to remember where we’ve been or what the past was. When we align with Spirit, everything we need to know we find within.

It’s helpful to remember there is only NOW in which to be refreshed by Love’s Presence. In this now moment, we can choose to give and receive Love and then we are in the right place at the right time, with right thinking.

We can choose to be born again, or to live in the past. Jesus said, “Let the dead bury the dead.” He was instructing us to stay in the nowness of Spirit and be in the flow of Love.  The invitation is there for us to accept – it never fades and that’s the Grace of God for sure!

I feel so uplifted from our recent Living A Course in Miracles series of 11 free classes. I got to share so much about the expansion into Wisdom that’s unfolding for all of us. Sharing is so sweet! – the replays, downloads and transcripts are all free and available to listen to right now.  I’ve had so many emails from people telling me that they are really shifting their thinking and feeling so inspired and uplifted! YES!  Perfect for a long holiday weekend!

If you’re finding what I’m sharing to be helpful, won’t you please share at facebook and twitter to let others know?  Thank you!

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Restore

Wednesday, July 5th, 2017

Following yesterday’s 4th of July celebrations, I’m still thinking about Freedom.  Particularly the Freedom to BE generous, kind, loving, thoughtful, and truly helpful.

If I really believe that all is One, is it possible for me to have a private thought? If I’m entertaining thoughts of judgment, unforgiveness, anger, and resentment, and I desire to keep them private, hidden from the rest of the Infinite Mind, then I must be simultaneously broadcasting a deep desire to be on my own, separate and NOT part of the cooperative Love Festival that God is. In this case, I have surely lost my mind.

When I dis someone, aren’t I actually trashing myself AND the Divine (since all is ONE)? Does it matter if the person I don’t approve of is in the next cubicle, in the next house or car, or on American Idol? If there is One source and supply of talent, inspiration, and Prosperity, is it ever possible to “get away with” thinking disparagingly of other’s efforts?

If I can be jealous, resentful and critical of others, am I not then throwing myself into solitary confinement of my own creation? Aren’t judgments of others a way of saying, “I am not part of the river, therefore, I can dump waste into it and not be touched by it.”

Doesn’t my judging attitude guarantee that the toxic waste of negative thought will stink up my house? If I begrudge others their success, am I not limiting my own ability to access the flow of Creativity? Won’t my own Prosperity then SEEM elusive and out of reach?

I’ve had all the experiences I need to have in order to know that I can only receive that which I’m willing to give. Therefore, it is essential that I not pour anything into the river that I don’t want to drink by the gallon. And so, today, I’m grateful for an awareness of truth.  My deep desire to see the truth instantly restores my mind to pristine awareness. From this place, I choose Love for me and for everyone.

Restoration comes when I can act as if I can feel and sense the Oneness of all life even when I cannot. Choosing to honor my connection with the All in All restores my mind to an awareness of Truth. From this choice, all things are added. My choice resounds throughout the Infinite and all are lifted.

In this simple way, my practice deepens profoundly and I am truly a beneficial presence on the planet.  My aspirations to make the world a better place are being fulfilled.  In this moment, I fulfill the opportunity felt by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., “We have before us the glorious opportunity to inject a new dimension of love into the veins of our civilization.”

I am grateful that we practice together!

Forgive the debtors and the trespassers to open up the flow of Prosperity in your life. You can get my free “How to Get Over It” forgiveness workshop on the homepage of JenniferHadley.com – it’s a great way to start releasing the blocks and opening up the flow of Abundance – won’t you please share with someone now and open the flow for yourself?

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Healing from Relationship Hell

Tuesday, May 30th, 2017

Forgiveness is the only tool I know of for opening the door to a life that is happy, prosperous, healthy and harmonious.  I’ve been teaching forgiveness workshops and classes since 2000, and I have been consistently amazed at the miraculous stories people have told me, and, of course, my own miraculous healing experiences.

When emotions take us over like this, even minor frustration or irritation, it’s coming up in our awareness so that we will choose healing rather than stuff it back down again.  When people keep stuffing it back down time and again, that’s when they either implode or explode.  We all already know that, don’t we?  It really makes life a lot harder to enjoy.  So, why don’t we stop doing it?

It’s because we don’t actually like to forgive.

We’d like the Freedom and Peace of mind that forgiveness brings, but without having to actually forgive.

The resentments, regrets, guilt, blame, shame, and everything feels like self-betrayal, or betrayal by others, is like a black sticky tar that we apply to ourselves and our lives.  And then we take it into our relationships to try to have a healing, but sometimes, we’re just not willing and we take that beautiful relationship and turn it into a big stinking mess.

Have you ever tried to remove tar from your clothes or skin?  Not a fun job.

A lot of people say they’d like to forgive, but they don’t actually mean it.  What they really mean is, “I’d like to be free of this pain and hold onto my judgments about what happened.”  That’s not forgiveness.

Forgiveness really means that you Love yourself enough to let go of the past and be present in the moment.  It’s so completely life-changing – it opens the door to Prosperity, physical, mental and emotional healing, and, of course, spiritual awakening.

In the end, there’s not one resentment that we can hold onto AND awaken.  Our resentments are like a heavy weight that keeps us from rising in Love.  Relationships are our best help in healing.  And that’s why I am dedicated to supporting anyone who is willing to get out of relationship hell.

RADIO SHOW TODAY:  On my radio show today, my topic is Healing From Relationship Hell. You can listen in LIVE on my radio show – click here for details – or you can click here to get the download later at iTunes or Stitcher for Android.  All the previous episodes are free at iTunes & Stitcher right now!  Transcripts and more are available here:  LivingaCourseinMiracles.com. You can subscribe to the podcast and get the show every week automatically on your phone, iPod, iPad or computer.  Check it out!  Would you like text message reminders about the radio show?  Click here:  http://ACIMtexts.com And if you enjoy the radio show, will you please write a review so more people find the show? The more reviews, the more iTunes and Stitcher show it to people!  Thank you!

FREE CLASS:  This past Saturday was the last class in this series – come join me live for  Living A Course in Miracles. My topic is Speed Up Your Healing.  We have 10 classes already recorded and I have 1 more to go this Saturday!  Click here to listen now!

This Living A Course in Miracles series is devoted to clearing the way to hear intuition, insight, Divine Guidance, and inspiration more clearly than ever before.  It’s the VERY best gift we can give to ourselves.  And it requires that we give up the judgments that block our intuition.  This is the practice that allows us to expand into a life of perfect Love!  Grab all the free classes now!  Enjoy!

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Trusting Divine Guidance

Wednesday, May 24th, 2017

Preparing for today’s class in Living A Course in Miracles with Gary Renard, where we’ll be talking about being receptive to Divine Guidance, I’m aware that for some, trusting guidance is insane.    Only “facts” are trustworthy.

Do you prefer information or insight?  One thing I know about the ego is it’s always seeking to collect more information.  Many spiritual students, myself included, can get hung up on collecting information.  I’ve learned the hard way that  information isn’t healing.  Love is healing and only Love is healing.  I’ve allowed myself to be so distracted by collecting information that, in the end, was completely useless to me.

It’s important to know what the motivation is – is the motivation to end your suffering?  To feel better?  To gain something?  I’ve learned that  none of those things can actually be accomplished by gathering information.  There’s no amount of information that has ever been healing to me.

The ego is constantly in search of data to prove someone wrong or right, and that is a completely useless pursuit.  Spirit already knows everything.  OUR Spirit already knows everything.  That knowing is our access to True Wisdom.  Accessing Divine Wisdom clears the clutter of our mind.  Accessing Divine Wisdom is healing – and it’s always available to us!

Here’s the three step process that changes our life:  Ask, Listen, Follow.

Ask for guidance.
“Listen” (or sense) the guidance.
Follow the guidance.

All the energy that I used to put into collecting spiritual information, I now invest in, “Ask, Listen, Follow,” to support my becoming more awake, aware, patient and kind.  This is what brings me benefit AND Joy!

Do you find yourself searching for information when you don’t even need it?  Do you have stacks of books that you never bothered to read, and that you feel if you did someday read them, they would somehow help you be more spiritual?

I used to collect books and information, but not anymore – I’ve realized it just doesn’t serve me.  It actually weighs me down.  Lots of information can be like clutter in the mind.  I’m interested in clearing my mind and by focusing on Love, I’m able to do that!  Phew!

When the ego is driving your spiritual practice, it seems like information is helpful. When it’s MOST helpful to put Spirit in-charge!

This Living A Course in Miracles series devoted to clearing the way to hear intuition, insight, Divine Guidance, and inspiration more clearly than ever before.  It’s the VERY best gift we can give to ourselves.  And it requires that we give up the judgments that block our intuition.  This is the practice that allows us to expand into a life of perfect Love!

TODAY:  Living A Course in Miracles classes are completely free.  We have 8 classes already recorded and 3 to go this week including today’s class with Gary Renard – our topic is Following Divine Guidance!   Click here to listen now!

TODAY is also my Sacred Circle day!  This is my monthly membership program that gives you a weekly call of group spiritual counseling.  Join my Sacred Circle and you can ask me any question you would like on the phone, online, or in writing!  I love it!  We have an awesome group of people who are doing the deep work!  Try my Sacred Circle for a month and see!  4 spiritual counseling calls with me each month – ask me any question!  Join me live or get the download later.

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Grace Is Ours

Tuesday, May 23rd, 2017

I was inspired by Miranda Macpherson’s class in Living A Course in Miracles yesterday.  She had so much to share that was truly helpful about how to open our hearts to Love and move beyond the fear, hurt and worry.

One word she used frequently was Grace.  I am reminded of ACIM Workbook Lesson 131 that ends with, “No one can fail who seeks to reach the truth.”  Which is a beautiful example of Perfect Grace.

We cannot fail, as long as we’re seeking to reach the truth.

In my experience, when I’m not seeking to reach the truth, recognize the truth, know the truth, then I’m failing at fulfilling my function in this world.  My function is to be the Light of the world and to illuminate the truth.

So much is given us when we’re willing.  It’s extraordinary how much our life opens up when we’re truly willing, and that’s what Miranda and I were talking about yesterday.

The Grace of God is that there’s nothing to forgive, so we can forgive by simply releasing our attachment to the meaning we made of things – even opinions and judgments that are left over from a previous incarnation and seem to be our “negative karma,” even that we can hand over to the Higher Holy Spirit Self for healing.  And, as it says in ACIM at the end of the Text, Chapter 5, “All the consequences of our wrong decisions will be healed.”  What could be a more clear example of God’s Infinite Grace?

We are so blessed!  Let us receive our blessings this day and partner UP with the Holy Spirit to release all the past!

I am supremely grateful for yesterday’s class at Living A Course in Miracles and another one today!  People are letting me know that this series has been a great blessing to them.  We’re on fire with a desire to live a life of JOY!  Check it out and please share with friends!

TODAY:  Living A Course in Miracles classes are completely free.  We have 6 classes already recorded and 5 to go this week including today’s homework class – my topic is Expanding into Love!   Click here to listen now!

This Living A Course in Miracles series is devoted to clearing the way to hear intuition, insight, Divine Guidance, and inspiration more clearly than ever before.  It’s the VERY best gift we can give to ourselves.  And it requires that we give up the judgments that block our intuition.  This is the practice that allows us to expand into a life of perfect Love!

If you’re finding what I’m sharing to be helpful, won’t you please share at facebook and twitter to let others know?  Thank you!

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Ending Suffering & Activating Prosperity

Saturday, May 20th, 2017

Activating Prosperity is one of the many benefits of seeking the Kingdom first.

The Kingdom of Heaven is within. If you’re looking to find it somewhere outside of your own heart, then you will never, ever even catch a glimpse. Many people are still seeking outside of themselves, thinking that what they deeply want, need, and desire is somewhere in the world. If they look long and hard enough, they might find it. If they work hard enough, they will be able to manifest it or attract it. If they are lucky, someone will give it to them. All of that seeking is illusion.

The Kingdom is within, to look elsewhere is to go on a fool’s errand. Deep down, we all know this. Some people despair simply because they’re afraid to look within and yet.

Why would someone be afraid to look for the Kingdom in the one and only place it can be found? Well, if you’re thinking of yourself as not good enough, if you’re thinking that inside of you is something ugly and unworthy, if you feel you are filled to the brim with guilt, blame and shame, then you probably won’t feel excited about looking within. Instead, you’ll fear what you might find. Better not to look within and simply continue to seek in vain.

If we’re gullible, the ego beliefs can convince us that the suffering of not finding is less than the suffering of discovering just how ugly your own heart is. This is the thought that keeps so many from discovering the amazing riches of the Kingdom.

The Truth: Amazing riches are yours already – the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow is pre-installed! Look within with the determination to find your heart of gold.  Seek and ye SHALL find.  Your willingness is all that’s required.

I am also supremely grateful for this week’s classes at Living A Course in Miracles.  People are letting me know that this series has been a great blessing to them.  We’re on fire with a desire to live a life of JOY!  Check it out and please share with friends!

TODAY:  Living A Course in Miracles classes are completely free and we have class with Lisa Natoli TODAY!  Click here to learn more and register now!

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Feel Your Way Into Your Blessings

Wednesday, May 17th, 2017

I feel so blessed.  In the two Living A Course in Miracles classes this week, it’s so clear to me that we’re in a time of miraculous change.  What I witness is that the people who are truly willing to practice forgiveness, have compassion for themselves and others, and let go of their opinions and beliefs about things. These people are having true and lasting healing.  They are changing their lives.

I see other people who are tremendously gifted and talented, such beautiful people. These people hang onto the past grievances with a tight grip because they are so identified with being the one who has been betrayed and wounded.  And I see they are struggling to maintain, since they’re  reluctant and resistant to change.  I get it.  I have felt that way.

What I shared in yesterday’s class is that we really truly do not have to know HOW to heal, or how to change our lives, or how to let go of our attachments to playing small – all we must do is be WILLING to let Spirit show us the way and we’ll be guided.

It’s a matter of trust.  If we don’t trust, we won’t follow Spirit, and then we’re left repeating the past and feeling more and more hopeless and helpless.  I get it.

It takes courage, it takes heart, to place our trust and faith in Spirit.  And we can’t really do that and still think we know how things SHOULD be.  We have to REALLY let go of how it’s all supposed to look.

It’s easier to let go of how we think it should look when we focus instead on how we’d like to feel.  We can feel free and prosperous, loving and loved in all kinds of scenarios.

Remaining focused and intentional about how we’d like to feel, we’re cultivating a relationship with that feeling, and that intention goes before us.  Spirit will guide us and we don’t get attached to how we think it has to be – which leaves us being more open-minded and available to receive our answered prayer!  It works!

How would you like to feel about your life?  Are you willing to set that as an intention and have Spirit guide you?

TODAY is my Sacred Circle day!  This is my monthly membership program that gives you a weekly call of group spiritual counseling.  Join my Sacred Circle and you can ask me any question you would like on the phone, online, or in writing!  I love it!  We have an awesome group of people who are doing the deep work!  Try my Sacred Circle for a month and see!  4 spiritual counseling calls with me each month – ask me any question!  Join me live or get the download later.

If you’re finding what I’m sharing to be helpful, won’t you please share at facebook and twitter to let others know?  Thank you!

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Mother’s Day Makeover For Me

Sunday, May 14th, 2017

One of the greatest gifts I gave myself was to let go of the blocks to Love in my relationship with my precious mother.  My experience taught me the value and power of true forgiveness.

My whole life has changed because of  my practice of forgiveness.  I love what A Course in Miracles says:

“It is as sure that those who hold grievances will suffer guilt, as it is certain that those who forgive will find peace. It is as sure that those who hold grievances will forget who they are, as it is certain that those who forgive will remember.”  Lesson 68, “Love Holds No Grievances”

I decided I was committed to remembering my TRUE identity and letting go of the false.  That’s the best decision I ever made – and it still rings through my heart and mind today.

My mom made her transition in 2008.  I made this video in 2012 and I share it with you now with the intention that it might inspire you to a greater forgiveness.  If you would like my support for forgiveness, please check out my free workshop, How to Get Over It.

I am so grateful for my mother and our relationship.  She taught me so much that I value.  She truly loved me.  I am grateful that we came to a place of Peace in our hearts and to a holy relationship of unconditional Love that brought us both Joy.  It was a tremendous effort for me to let go of the ego’s grievances.  And it was absolutely worth every bit of it.

No matter where you are in your relationship with your mother, (or with anyone), even if they’ve passed on, you can still completely heal the relationship and experience a holy relationship.  Truly, your willingness is all that’s required.

There is no greater gift that you can give to yourself, your family, and the world than to heal the grievances, of this I am certain.

As I’ve said again here recently, ultimately, we will choose to let the grievances go, so why wait?  Today is the day!  Happy Mother’s Day!

Living A Course in Miracles Classes are completely free and we start on Monday!  Click here to learn more and register now!

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Life!

Sunday, April 9th, 2017

My brothers’ family dog, Dixie, is a beagle and a true hound dog. She will eat just about anything and there’s been many a time when she’s gotten into my purse and sniffed out a granola bar or some other goodie and left me only pieces of the wrapper to clean up.

One time she completely devoured a one pound artisanal organic lamb and beef smoked sausage that i’d gotten at the farmer’s market in Maine.

Dixie is a little dog so this was quite a feat for her. I had the sausage in my suitcase and left it unzipped and she thought that meant that I was willing to share my stash. I wasn’t.

I’ve seen Dixie jump on top of the dining room table and bury her face in a bowl of food just placed there while we’re in the middle of setting the table. She’s quick and clever. She’s learned how to maneuver a chair over to the counter in the kitchen in order to get up there and devour a chicken waiting to be sliced.

Dixie has no shame about it, unlike other dogs she feels no guilt. She feels that it’s her job to get as much as she can. She makes me laugh.

Dixie helps our entire family to practice “you’re never upset for the reason you think.”

How could I be upset that Dixie ate my sausage when I left it within her striking distance? If I were upset, it would only be because I SHOULD have known better. I don’t go down the SHOULD road anymore because it’s always going to bring my unhappiness and I’ve had enough of that.
The thing I say that helps me to move on in a moment is:  Live & learn.

I’m living and I’m learning.
I’m grateful to be living and grateful to be learning.
To learn anything at all is a blessing.

The other thing I say that helps me keep it lighthearted is:  Life!

That’s life!  S’life!  Life is filled with experiences of stuff that happens.  That’s life!

I felt bad for Dixie because the rest of the day she was suffering a bit in her digestion. Compassion is Love and I’m happy to have compassion for Dixie even though she sometimes seems to have none for me. She’s my constant teacher and I respect her for that. I love her. I guess I really didn’t need that sausage anyway. What could I not accept if I but knew that everything is gently planned by one whose only interest is my good?

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Opening the Flow of Prosperity

Tuesday, April 4th, 2017

It took me a long time to see that having faith, placing my trust in Love (God) would open up my Prosperity. The big shift came when I realized that since God is all that there is, EVERYTHING I receive, I receive from God. I had the shift in my awareness and then came the shift in my life.

Recognizing that EVERYTHING I had, or would have, came from the unlimited source (God), helped me to also understand that EVERYTHING I gave, I gave TO God.

There’s only one place to receive FROM and once place to give TO.

I realized that, since there’s just this one – I could stop keeping score. I could give wherever I felt called to give and not have a thought that anyone owed me anything – including a thank you.

I also realized that I could receive without thinking that I owed anyone. No strings attached anymore. God has no strings because God is not a manipulator.

God is unlimited and unprecedented source and supply – I could, if I chose, learn to receive without limits. How cool is that?

You see, it’s all in the mind.
The flow starts in the mind and then shows up in your life.

Would you like to open up the flow? Here’s a simple tip for you:

If you have strings attached to anything, then you’re not in the flow.
Thinking someone owes you a thank you, or recognition or even any small amount of appreciation is giving to get. Let it go and open up the flow.

Are there any people in your life that you think OWE you?
If you KNEW that your experiences of lack and limitation were tied to that thought, would you be willing to give it up?

Forgive the debtors and the trespassers to open up the flow of prosperity in your life. Forgiving yourself is the best place to begin.  Self-forgiveness is one of the main components of my Finding Freedom Spiritual Bootcamp class.  It’s amazing how true forgiveness sets us free and that opens the door to prosperity!

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Eliminating Your PAIN Patterns
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Finding Freedom registration closes Wednesday, April 5 – Get support to stop playing small and live your calling.  Deepen your spiritual practice and accelerate your awakening by eliminating the pain patterns.  It’s easier than you think! People are joining my 7-week Spiritual Bootcamp class right now – you can, too! (Plus, you get 3 months to do the whole class with weekly calls to ask me any question you like!)

Finding Freedom – my Spiritual Bootcamp class – is about to begin – align with others who are ROCKING their healing right now! People are already experiencing amazing healing! It’s not too late to join us. If you need a payment plan, I’ve got one! Register now and make this the year that changes your entire life! Click here to learn more!

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Clearing Out the Past

Thursday, March 23rd, 2017

Do you feel that pull to clear the inner clutter NOW? I do!

I’ve learned and proved that Love is the healer of all the painful patterns in my life.  Forgiveness is the way.  I’m focusing on all the ways that I can be more fully and completely loving with myself and with others, and I’m feeling that purification happen.

One of the coolest things we get to experience as spiritual seekers who are really doing the work is that the more we clarify and purify, the more we can celebrate our Divinity. It’s such a powerful experience of healing that begins to be more and more evident.

For example – let’s say you have a garage full of old stuff. So much stuff to clear – boxes and boxes of old junk that you once really valued, but now it’s just sentimental stuff you don’t really care about. Perhaps there are old garments – like outmoded ways of thinking and being and expressing. Perhaps there are some stinky, moldy things that are like old hurts festering and long-forgotten vows and commitments that either have been broken and discarded or vows of revenge and retribution that you don’t even remember making and all of that is taking up your storage space – it’s the internal clutter that requires SO MUCH energy to keep managing and coping with. Phew!

Now is the time to do that spiritual spring cleaning!
And yet, having a whole entire garage jam packed with a big old mess can seem so daunting. Just beginning seems overwhelming sometimes.

I am so familiar with that feeling of resistance and reluctance. And that’s exactly why I share what I’ve learned about how to move that mountain of stuff.

What I absolutely know is that no matter how little energy you have and no matter how intense things are, NOW is the time to begin do it and we can do it together.  I invite you to make an aspiration today to get to it and don’t delay. Instead of investing in managing and coping with that clutter, invest yourself in clearing it out and finally and forever so that you can invest yourself in sharing your gifts and talents, in having a life of Love and Prosperity!

What I absolutely know is that your heart knows the way! Cultivate that willingness moment by moment. Gain momentum and strength through dedicating yourself to being loving, patient and kind. Each day there are so many opportunities to deepen your spiritual practice so that your whole life becomes a living testimony to Divine Love! There is nothing else in this life that could possibly be more valuable than this! How wonderful that we can begin now!

I appreciate being able to continuously go back to the beginning and start again with a beginner’s mind and look for the ways to choose Love each day.

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Forgiveness Frees Financial Flow

Sunday, March 12th, 2017

For years I’d heard people say that prosperity had to do with forgiveness. I didn’t get it. I didn’t believe it. I didn’t want to believe it.  I didn’t get it UNTIL I was willing to forgive everything.

Now, I know that financial flow has to do with non-judgment.

Non-judgment is the key to forgiveness.

All is One. If we deny anyone anything at all, then we’re in limitation.

Everyone I know (including myself) who experiences lack, thinks of lack on a regular basis.

In God, the All in Alll, there can be no lack. How could there be lack in the All.

Do yourself a HUGE favor – start to COUNT the thoughts of lack and limitation.  I find it so helpful to keep track of things to be the observer.  To “pay” attention.

Each one reinforces the experience of lack and limitation. There are no idle thoughts.

Healing is instantaneous.
Healing doesn’t take time.
Healing only requires SINCERITY.

Your sincere willingness to be the perfect giver and receiver of Love is what unlocks the flow of abundance.

There is no lack unless we believe in it.

Next Weekend – Retreat with me!  

I’m offering a deeply healing, renewing and restoring retreat March 16 to 19 in New York.  As always on my retreats we’ll have a lot of fun while we’re doing a lot of deep cleansing and clearing of old emotional and mental baggage so that we can live a much higher quality of life and be more available for LOVE.  It’s such a relief to let the negative patterns and resentments, the guilt, shame and blame go!  If you’d like to start your spring with real clarity and healing, come join me!  Click here for details about my Masterful Living Retreat – the early bird discount EXPIRES TOMORROW – this retreat is open to all – come and bring a friend!

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Forgiveness IS Freedom

Friday, March 3rd, 2017

Many times in the day, I am offered a choice between forgiveness and holding onto resentment through taking offense. I’ve seen this as the choice between violence and nonviolence.

It used to be that forgiveness, the nonviolent choice, seemed unthinkable, too hard for me to contemplate. Only a wimp would let someone cut them off in traffic and not blow their horn. How will those people learn if I let them get away with it? If the service in a restaurant is bad and I don’t make a big fuss, how will they ever be motivated to change?

If I forgive my brother for what he said and did to me, then I’m not protecting myself. If I sit down and eat a big bag of chips, then the way to prevent it from happening again is to berate myself until I feel sick and ashamed. As a child, I was punished if I did something wrong, that way I’d remember the hurt and not do it again.

There are so many ways that I’ve been taught to perpetuate the violence through unforgiveness. Yet there is always the choice to Love. At first it seemed harder, but now I can honestly say it’s so much easier to forgive and go on.

Instead of blowing my horn in traffic, I breathe deeply and enjoy the Peace. Instead of making a fuss in a restaurant, I put the waitress at ease with a joke and we can both have a laugh. Now, I really don’t want to eat a whole bag of chips anymore. I love myself and that much salt just isn’t good for me.

Along the way, I’ve realized that forgiveness is non-judgment.  And non-judgment can really be so simple.  A Course in Miracles helps me with Lesson #25 “I don’t know what anything is for.”

Let’s face it, if I don’t know what anything is for, it’s not really worth me investing my precious time and energy into to judging it.  I have better things to invest in – like loving myself and being happy!

Every day, I’m retraining myself to choose Love. And the miracle is this:  instead of feeling wimpy, I am stronger than ever.  I AM stronger than ever.  I feel happier, and I feel that I’m being truly helpful throughout my day.  My days are inspirational now.

Every day, I walk with Gandhi, King, Kuan Yin, Jesus, Mother Teresa, and all those who walked the path before me. When I think I might fall down, I ask them to hold me up.

Since forgiveness is the path of liberation and available to us in every moment, today I invite you to enjoy my free forgiveness workshop, “How to Get Over It.”  You can register right on the home page at JenniferHadley.com – it’s completely my gift to you.  When you use the Forgiveness Letter that comes with the workshop, you’ll let go of the past and bring great healing.  It works!  Bring on your breakthrough!

Retreat with me!

I’m offering a deeply healing, renewing and restoring retreat, March 16 to 19 in New York.  As always on my retreats we’ll have a lot of fun while we’re doing a lot of deep cleansing and clearing of old emotional and mental baggage so that we can live a much higher quality of life and be more available for LOVE.  It’s such a relief to let the negative patterns and resentments, the guilt, shame and blame go!  If you’d like to start your spring with real Clarity and healing, come join me!  Click here for details about my Masterful Living Retreat – the early bird discount EXPIRES TOMORROW – this retreat is open to all – come and bring a friend!

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Get Unstuck! Speaker Series Invite

Saturday, February 4th, 2017

Today, I get to share something beautiful that’s also a gift for you.  I was recently invited to share in a speaker series with my friend, Denise Barry.

I have something for you that will help you to become aware of those invisible blocks that are holding you back from living the life you desire.

I’ve recently been invited to speak at the Get Unstuck…Breakthrough the Illusion & Set Yourself FREE virtual speaker series. This dynamic speaker series features many of the world’s leading experts (including me) on how to get to the root of your block, end the struggle and get into alignment with your heart’s desires. It is already shaping up to be the life changing event of the year!

This is a video series – and I’m sharing on Forgiveness, of course, one of my favorite topics!

Here are a few of the topics the other speakers will be covering:

  • Money/Finances/Manifest Faster
  • Weight
  • Love/Relationships
  • Purpose & Direction
  • Excuses
  • Anxiety
  • Accelerate your results
  • Raise your Financial Vibration
  • And much, much more…

And I get to share an exclusive invitation to register for the speaker series… for FREE!

All you have to do is register here:

denisebarry.ca/speaker-series-registration-page

Following that link will allow you to reserve your ‘seat’ for the Get Unstuck…Breakthrough the Illusion & Set Yourself FREE – 2017 Online Event!

And it will cost you absolutely nothing.  My session is airing tomorrow!

If you’re finding what I’m sharing to be helpful, won’t you please share at facebook and twitter to let others know?  Thank you!

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Forgiveness & The Onion

Thursday, January 12th, 2017

People talk about forgiveness as though it’s an onion that we need to peel the layers off in order to finally be able to let it go. In my personal life research laboratory, I’ve discovered that when I’m ready to give up every opinion I have about something then, there is no onion and nothing to peel.

When I cling to opinions about what’s right and wrong, then deny myself the opportunity to harvest the learning in my experiences. When I remind myself that masterful beings never make a mistake – simply, I am learning and growing from my experiences and there’s no mistake in that. What makes forgiveness an onion is the refusal to be grateful for the learning – the refusal to harvest the learning in whatever the painful experience was. When I’m willing to be grateful and harvest the learning, forgiveness comes easily.

Forgiveness never eludes me although, it looks that way. It can look like I’m chasing forgiveness, but what I’ve really done is decide I’d rather be right. Now, I’d rather give up my opinions quickly, harvest the learning, and embody it. I choose to be grateful for my expansion and my Freedom.

My opinions, being right and holding onto a grudge will never bring me Peace, and I’m so glad I know that now!

“When you strive for anything in this world in the belief that it will bring you peace, you are belittling yourself and blinding yourself to glory.” A Course In Miracles

Freedom is never in the future. Freedom is only ever available now and it is ALWAYS available now. So, right now I am grateful and thankful for all of my life’s experiences. They have all brought me learning and I’m grateful because I am here to learn. I’m grateful for everyone that’s participated in my learning experiences. And what I absolutely know from the bottom of my heart is that there’s nothing to forgive because I’ve learned from all of it. I am grateful for THAT learning most of all. And in gratitude, I share this learning with all beings, because I’m One with them. And so it is. Amen.

ACT NOW! My New Year’s Intention class is a 3-part series that just started. Enroll now and you can get the first class and lay the ground work for your most healing year ever! It’s the best way I know to get motivate and inspiration to have a different experience this year. Please click here to learn more now!

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