Challenging relationships have been the best tool to help me heal my mind of the things that disturb my peace. Who would’ve thunk it could possibly be true? Certainly, not me. There was a time when I thought relationship challenges would cause me to take my own life. Golly gee.
I’ve experienced some extraordinary relationship healing in my life, and I’m so very grateful. For me, there’s been nothing more upsetting to me than the difficulties in my relationships. They have challenged me to the core of my being. I’m so glad I learned that this is precisely what relationships are for.
I’ve learned not to walk away from a difficult relationship.
I’ve learned to never give up on myself or anyone else.
Instead, I’ve come to absolutely know that the thing to do is to give it UP to the Higher Holy Spirit Self for miraculous healing. This method works, but that doesn’t make it easy.
Relationship attachments can be like an alien parasite. It makes me think of the terrifying movie, Aliens with Sigourney Weaver (LOVE her!). Remember when the member of the crew was on the operating table, and the alien exploded out of his belly? I went through a period where I was undoing the ego at such a rapid rate that I felt that I was pregnant with an alien baby terrorist that was trying to eat me alive from the inside.
It’s that feeling when the third chakra is going through such an intense cleansing. The third chakra, at the solar plexus, is all about our self-perception. When we’re perceiving ourselves as the ego, the small, selfish self, then it’s a constant battle with an inner terrorist. We’ll project it outward into ALL of our relationships and never feel self.
When we’re willing to shift identification to the Higher Holy Spirit Self, then we can begin to see clearly what every relationship is for. Then, we can have holy relationships. It’s intensely challenging, but THANK GOD we don’t have to figure out HOW to make it all happen. We only have to allow.
This is the time where we’re all learning about Self-Love – Self with a capital “S”. This is the curriculum, and we can delay, we can avoid, but we’ll still have to do the curriculum, eventually. Let’s get to it! Heaven is at hand!
The best way to get to the healing we desire in our relationships is really focus on loving yourself IN all of your relationships. Let’s do it!
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