Waking UP! Part 1 – Last Ditch Effort

May 6, 2014

Remembering to Love myself was a journey!

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After I graduated from Emerson College in 1981, I got a terrific job working at the New York Shakespeare Festival for a woman I came to really love and with people I dearly loved. It was a wonderful place for me and a good job right out of college. I got a good apartment. I compared myself to other friends who were starting a career in the New York theatre world and I was doing GREAT!

Like a lot of people starting out, I had big hopes, bold dreams, and a lot of determination. I was going to MAKE it happen!

Within a couple of years, I wasn’t doing so great inside. I felt really confused, angry, and frightened. I had always been very judgmental, but now I was toxic. Like my peers, I wore black, I smoked, I drank, I was super sarcastic. I wasn’t happy and I was intensely critical.

Looking back, I don’t think I knew what happiness was, but I had a fantasy of happiness that I was clinging to – and in that fantasy I was successful, powerful, beautiful, important, wealthy and loved.

A couple of key things happened – first, I made what I’ll call my last ditch effort to MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. I was trying to make it in the world. Inside, I felt that I was on VERY shaky ground. I clearly did not know how to make it happen. I thought I should be able to figure it out.

I started to study spirituality as a way to figure out HOW to make it happen. I started with Shirley Maclaine, Shakti Gawain and Eric Butterworth. Listening, reading, absorbing.

I was also training for the New York Marathon – trying to prove something to myself. I was desperate to prove that I had what it took. I was gong for 10, 12, 14, 16, 18, and even 20 mile training runs. Running and working out became my meditation until I started actually meditating and then running just became my happy drug – endorphins.

In the midst of all this I had a nuministic experience in meditation where I was given a powerful vision of my true self, one that was healed and could help others heal themselves. I felt woefully unworthy and under qualified, and didn’t even know where to start. If I had one do-over in my life it would be that one. Instead of saying “no, I don’t want that,” I would have said, “I feel unworthy and unable to do that, but if you show me how, I’ll go for it!”

Fortunately, things cycled back around and I got to choose again, after more learning and suffering.

In that LAST DITCH EFFORT sequence of trying to be successful in the world and meet the ego’s insatiable demands, I reached a point of complete and utter hopelessness. I wanted to die. I knew that I couldn’t make it happen and I didn’t know what to do if I couldn’t. The thought that I wouldn’t be the success I wanted to be made me want to die.

Since I didn’t feel I had the right to desert my family who really needed me at that time, I just carried on and I began to pray. I didn’t know how to pray, but I prayed for help. I made the decision that I would learn to love myself as my #1 priority.

The most significant thing was – and the key to this step in my growth is this: I made a last ditch effort to succeed in ego terms, I failed, I wanted to die. I was surprised to realize that the ego hated me and was really willing to kill me. I didn’t know it then, but what I really wanted was to die to my little life of an ego/body and be born to my true nature, the I AM. I decided to try something new – self-Love.

This is the start of a series on waking up within the illusion. It’s going to be completely from my point of view because that’s what my research is – my experience. My intention is that you would read this and find it helpful and comforting in your own waking up experience.

As I share about my own experiences, I feel it’s important that you not think that you go through these exact steps, in the order that I share about them, but that you recognize any part of your journey in mine. I hope you’ll share and make comments along the way.

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