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Our relationships are challenging, there’s no question about that. They are the place where we can best learn to open our hearts and minds and be genuinely compassionate and caring. They give us the opportunity to choose Love again and again. They are the greatest blessing we have for our spiritual growth.
It’s tempting to give up on relationships. Yesterday, I offered a class – (click the link to register and you’ll be able to listen to the replay, my gift to you) Stop Wrecking Your Relationships! – and one of the questions that came up is a question I get very often –
“how do you know when to leave a relationship?”
We are one with each other.
We are eternal.
So, we’re eternally one with each other – how can you possibly leave an eternal relationship?
We don’t really have to leave our relationships. Even if it’s an abusive situation, we can take a time out, but not leave the relationship. The relationship is in our heart, it’s in our awareness, physical interaction, talking, communicating is only part of a relationship. The connection will always be there because we’re one – why let go the connection as long as it’s a healing opportunity?
How we hold each other in our heart is what makes a relationship Real and powerful and beneficial. When we hold each other in right view our experience with others comes into right relationship.
We don’t have successful relationships when we’re saying one thing and doing another, not keeping our agreements, judging, blaming and shaming. And all that can be changed in a sincere heartbeat moment.
I’ve learned to give my relationships to my Higher Holy Spirit Self for healing. In doing that, I don’t have to decide when to leave, the Holy Spirit arranges everything perfectly. However, if I’m not actually in a loving place in my heart, then it gets all muddled and it’s hard to know what’s for the highest in best.
If I’m not able to see what’s highest and best, it’s probably because I’m not in my loving heart, and so I can pray to release the blocks to Love.
When there’s Peace, then it’s a good sign that the healing work in the relationship is accomplished and then it may be a natural time to move on, Spirit will guide us to the next relationship healing opportunity, of this we can be sure!
Get the replay: That’s why I’m sharing the free replay of my class from yesterday: Stop Wrecking Your Relationships! This class is my gift, but you do have to register to listen!
We’re waking up together and I’m so grateful for that! If you’re finding what I’m sharing to be helpful won’t you please share at Facebook and twitter to let others know? Thank you!