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Are you a people pleaser? Or maybe you know someone who is?
Sometimes, we do things to please people, and to make or keep them happy so that we can improve our relationships – and all it does is backfire on us. Sheesh!
Why does people pleasing backfire on us?
Because it’s a form of manipulation.
People pleasing is actually what I call, “giving to get.”
Whenever we’re giving to get in our relationships then we’re trying to control and manipulate someone. Is that loving? I hope you said, “NO!”
Do you know anyone who is actively interested in finding a partner who would like to be controlled and manipulated in exchange for affection and care? Isn’t that complete and total co-dependency?
Giving to get blocks the flow of Love.
Giving to get is an illusion within the illusion – it’s an illusion of Love, but it’s not Love.
Can we experience real Love when we’re focused on creating an illusion of Love? Not so much.
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Real Love is about being Real. There’s no manipulation needed. It’s a deep practice. It’s profoundly transformational and healing. Once you get the hang of it, you’ll be so grateful you decided to get REAL!
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