- Jennifer Hadley - https://jenniferhadley.com -

Peaceful Choices

I remember it so clearly.  Of course I do.  It happened millions of times.  

There were millions of times I had a clear opportunity to turn away from self-destructive and self-punishing behavior, but I didn’t do it.  It just felt like it took more energy than I had.  

I remember a friend telling me that she knew she was eating too much frozen yogurt, too often.  It was too easy to go get it and so comforting to eat it.  She said, “sometimes it seems like it’s all I have that I really enjoy.”  

I so completely get that.  

I’ve felt like that.

One self-destructive act usually leads to another.  In this way even frozen yogurt can seem to be a “gateway drug.” It’s not the yogurt, it’s what it represents.  Escape.  Self-soothing.

It’s so crazy that in this world the things we enjoy can seem to be the worst things for us to choose – again, it’s not the thing, it’s the meaning we make of it.  It’s not the glass of wine, it’s why we’re drinking it.  It’s not the cigarette, it’s what it represents to us.

When someone’s letting go of a “bad” habit the first thing is to not make it bad.  The wine isn’t bad.  Neither are the cigarettes.  See it all as neutral.  

Realize that we make things bad, then we enjoy them to reinforce feeling bad about ourselves.  If we don’t make them bad, it doesn’t work.  We don’t trigger the unconscious guilt [1], which is the root cause of feeling bad.

This is one of the ways we can love ourselves back into a place of Peace.

Healing requires us to be willing to shift [2] our consciousness and not just change our behavior.  All healing happens through shifting our mind first. 

Make the shift from the inside and let it ripple through your life.  Start with the mind, not with the behavior and you really will change your life.

If we don’t make the change in our consciousness, then our consciousness will just find some other outlet for the self-destruction.  Get it?  

Whatever you do, don’t make yourself bad or wrong for doing it.

The way to Peace is through peaceful choices.

SUNDAY ONLINE WORKSHOP:  Self-Love:  6 Simple Steps for Self-Healing.  Self-Love quite literally shifts everything in our life for the better – and it’s required for spiritual growth.

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STARTS JANUARY 25th:  My Masterful Living Program [4] supports people in establishing an effective spiritual practice.  It’s not intellectual.  It’s from the heart [5].   It’s about loving ourselves so much that we eliminate the habits and thought patterns that keep us in worry [6], doubt and fear.  We use real tools that actually work to undo these chains that bind us to keep repeating the past.  

You can talk with a spiritual counselor to see if Masterful Living [7] is right for you right now. There’s no charge. Click here now to book a free Exploratory Call. [8]

If you’ve already registered for Masterful Living 2022 the Self-Love Workshop [3] is a BONUS so you’ll get it too!  Along with other bonuses!

In my year-long Masterful Living Course [4] a number of people have healed these self-destructive habits such as rehearsing disappointment, failure, depression, and addiction.  Many have gone off anti-depressants, let go of old hurts and sadness that has troubled them, even chronic pain seems to disappear for many.

I share what I learned that shifted me out of my habits of ignoring my intuition and all the healing opportunities that God gave me in my Masterful Living Course 2022. [4]  At no charge you can also book an exploratory call [8] to speak with one of the spiritual counselors who has already done the program and they can help you be clear if this is right for you right now.

Click here now to book a free Exploratory Call. [8]

Let’s heal the past and live a life we LOVE!  Let’s ROCK this new year!

If you’ve been saying that “someday” you’ll do Masterful Living, make it this year.  Each year we prove that spiritual practice saves time, money and prevents suffering, plus it’s profoundly healing to body, mind and spirit – as well as relationships and careers.  Who couldn’t use some of ALL of that – act now and you really CAN have it all!

Are you unsure if my Masterful Living Program 2022 is right for you?  Book an exploratory call [8] with one of the spiritual counselors and let them answer all your questions.  Click here now to book an exploratory call. [8]  If you’re going to join us next year in Masterful Living 2022 [4], I encourage you to register early.  Make the commitment to yourself NOW and you’ll have so much to look forward to – including tremendous healing and transformation!  Give yourself this gift and you’ll be amazed at how your connection with Spirit will bloom!

Click here now to book a free Exploratory Call. [8]

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