We can be unbotherable. We can live in a harmonious way.

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Year’s ago I set the intention to become unbotherable. I felt ready. It was such a great decision.  My life has truly shifted because of it.

We live in an ever-changing world.  The impermanent nature of everything on planet earth is part of why we chose this experience.  It’s a bit like my shape-up workout shoes.  They have a rounded bottom to them and they make it less stable for me to walk, which makes me use my core more and that strengthens me.  

We can decide to use the life’s weather and weirdness to help us to become stronger.  We can be like the trees, who receive great benefit from having the wind and elements challenging them to grow stronger and more resilient to even the harshest weather.  

I used to torture myself, and everyone around me by getting upset and venting. It was a giant waste of energy and it really created so much negative backwash in my life. I didn’t realize it at that the time.

I used to think that getting upset was my power. I’m so glad I’ve learned that Love is the ONLY power that there is.

Now, I get such strength from practicing being harmonious regardless of what’s going on. 

This practice of unbotherability is not about denying how you feel, it’s about placing a much higher value on Love and Harmony than on any emotional expression.

When we’re willing, we can begin to practice the discipline of being harmonious. It requires the willingness to be compassionate.

When we practice with a strong intention, we realize our emotions are the by-product of our INTERPRETATION of what’s going on.  We’re only upset for the meaning we made of it.

Our interpretation is our perception.  It’s our opinion.
Like the weather, opinions are always changing.
Why value what is ever-changing when we can value what is never-changing?
LOVE is constant.
Love is clear. 

Love isn’t grasping and the active practice of Love is compassion, which leads to Harmony, which leads to self-esteem and abundance.

We can be unbotherable.

We can live in a harmonious way.

At some point, Harmony becomes so valuable that no opinion is worth giving it up for. You can decide if today’s that day or not.  You can choose to be unbotherable.  Wouldn’t you really rather be unbotherable?  Wouldn’t you rather live with an open heart?  We’re doing it together!

Forgiveness is a big part of being able to be unbotherable.  Forgiving the debtors and the trespassers opens up the flow of Love in your life.  It’s not just a matter of willingness, it helps to know HOW to forgive.  You can get my free “How to Get Over It” forgiveness workshop on the home page of JenniferHadley.com – it’s a great way to start releasing the blocks and opening up the flow of abundance – won’t you please share with someone now and open the flow for yourself?

You can still join me. Stinking’ thinking’ and this kind of self-sabotage is why I created my End My Self-Sabotage Challenge that starts July 20th – the first week is free.  I cannot tell you what a great gift it was to give myself – to liberate from that pattern of darkness that ran so much of my life and my choices was worth everything I put into it.  I wish I had any clue a decade sooner that I could really break free.  I would have gone for it if I’d known.  Check out this breakthrough program and see how you can benefit!