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A Healing Choice

Thursday, October 19th, 2017

Simple practices bring tremendous healing, and much more quickly than we might imagine.  When I bring my attention fully into the present, into the now moment, then I can see that each and every moment contains a clear choice. The choice is always between Unity/Oneness/Love and separation. For a long time I wasn’t able to see the choice as clearly as I do now. This clarity has made a difference in my life.  As I keep my commitment to being mindful of the ever-present choice for Love, it’s possible for me to choose love more often. As I am mindful of the choices I make, I am also mindful of their outcomes.

Now that I am more mindful, if I choose fear, anger or some other form of suffering I can see that it was my choice. Right there in that moment of awareness is another opportunity to choose Love and forgive myself by releasing any judgment I might have about myself for not choosing Love a moment ago.  This is a living practice of Self-forgiveness.  It has been profoundly healing for me.  It’s helped me to realize all my mistakes can bring me great benefit when I practice Self-Love in the form of Self-forgiveness.

I witness that love has an intelligence all of its own. This makes every moment of my life a work of art.

In their book EMBRACING THE BELOVED: Relationship as a Path of Awakening, Stephen & Ondrea Levine write, “Those who suppress the ego instead of just letting it recede into the heart make the same merciless error in judgment as those who, attempting to cure serious illness, believe they must ‘filter out all negative thoughts’ in order to be healed … They do not recognize that what leaves the ‘negative residue’ is not the thought, no matter how dark or fearful, but the negative reaction (holding), as opposed to the healing response (letting go), to that moment. That a ‘positive’ thought grasped is less healing than a ‘negative’ one met with mercy.”

Today I make a deepen my commitment to be mindful as part of my daily spiritual practice. I meet any dark and fearful thoughts with mercy. In this way my daily practice of being aware of self-forgiveness and self-compassion opportunities is healing and I share the benefit with all beings because I am one with them. My choice is a healing choice!

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Wednesday, October 18th, 2017

A Course in Miracles tells us that increasing a sense of guilt is what our special Love relationships are all about.  It tells us that our special Love relationships are relationships that are actually backwards.  Instead of unconditional Love there’s co-dependency, which is conditional Love.  This kind of relationship only increases our suffering because we become so attached to the other person validating us.

In the special Love relationship we are attracted to the person who affirms our false identity.  That’s not Love.  It’s a poor substitute.

In our special relationships we begin by being so glad and excited that someone is affirming our specialness, but we know that if someone’s not seeing our true identity they aren’t loving our true self, only the false self.  Deep down we know it’s a poor arrangement.

If we don’t show our true self how can someone ever really love us?

If we present a false self in our relationships – one that we think is more likable than our true self, and if we hide how we feel, so people don’t ever know what’s going on with us, won’t we actually be preventing others from loving us?

The shift happens when we love ourselves.

I was sharing about this in my radio show yesterday:  In the false, fake, special relationship, our upset is a display to manipulate others into feeling guilty for having upset us.  Is it Love if we’re manipulating someone to do what we’d like?

Do you wish to be in a relationship with someone who blames their upset on you and then tries to make you feel guilty for it?

The way out of this pain is to take responsibility for our upsets.  It helps to be able to be transparent about how we feel and to not blame anyone.

There’s such a great reward when we can let people Love us.  It’s one of the reasons why we love dogs so much.  We allow them to love us, and it makes them so happy!

When we allow others to love us there’s a healing that happens for everyone because Love is our healer!

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Special Love Relationship

Tuesday, October 17th, 2017

The “special” relationship offers the ego the promise of safe haven and relief from suffering; and yet, its chief delivery is the opportunity to learn through pain.  A Course in Miracles leads us out of the pain of the unholy relationship into the Heaven of the holy relationship.

What I’ve learned about relationship  has shown me that one holy relationship is worth a thousand special relationships.  What’s amazing and beautiful is that all relationships can be made holy.

We don’t know HOW it happens, our job is to call it forth and ALLOW it to happen.  We can know that the Higher Holy Spirit Self is in-charge of it.

The ego is endlessly tempted to manage it, but that doesn’t work and we know it.  Let’s allow our relationships to be made holy and rejoice in the healing that’s happening!

TODAY RADIO SHOW:  On my radio show today, my topic is Special Love Relationship.

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A Spiritual Program that Works

Wednesday, March 18th, 2015

Are You Ready for a Spiritual Program that Works?

Stop repeating the same old negative patterns and really commit to your spiritual growth. Get out of your head and into a structured program that offers real support so you can make lasting changes in your life and be a truly helpful presence on this planet.

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Year after year, Masterful Living participants say my year-long class helped them begin to experience a truly fulfilling life – one they thought might always be a fantasy.

  • Miracles and breakthroughs become the norm.
  • Relationships heal.
  • People become the loving person they always wanted to be.
  • Transformation takes place and it sticks!
  • Careers dramatically take off.
  • People get engaged to be married.
  • Finances stabilize.
  • Emotions heal.
  • Powerful friendships form.
  • People replace hopelessness with faith.

Why? Because participants move into a mystical, TANGIBLE and REAL relationship with Spirit. They learn to permanently heal the mental patterns that keep them stuck in the past. Pure insight leads and guides them to the highest choice, and they have the awareness and confidence to choose higher! Ancient hurts dissolve and reveal profound gifts of wisdom and learning.

Linda Soto in Erie, PA

When I signed up for MLC, my intention was to deepen my connection with God. I had no idea the transformation & support I would receive from the community & doing the work. My life is completely different! My relationship with my hubby has deepened, my career changed, & I feel I'm being a more loving presence in the world. What a blessing this year has been. Thank you God & thank you Rev. Jennifer!

Linda Soto in Erie, PA

Is Masterful Living For You?

  • Are you looking for peace and calm and can’t seem to achieve it in day to day life?
  • Do you want to go deeper with your spiritual practice?
  • Would you like to release negative thoughts and patterns once and for all?
  • Would you like the support of a Like-Minded Community?
  • Would you like to build confidence as a spiritual being?
  • Would you just like to be more loving?

So often I’ve heard people say they’ve studied lots of books and taken so many classes and yet they’re not feeling more spiritual. They don’t have the peace and confidence they’ve been looking for. Many even despair that it’s not possible for them. I understand. I’ve been there too! I was there for a lot of years.

I used to feel like a hamster on a wheel. I had read all the books, studied with so many teachers. I was really good at talking the talk but I didn’t LIVE it. I did not even know how to live it.

Ego kept telling me to do more, accomplish more, and I constantly struggled with resistance and reluctance to do anything truly productive at all. I settled for so much less than I was worth because I couldn’t find the way out of the pattern. I was stuck re-experiencing the same painful problems again and again.

I used to stay in thoughts of lack and attack, managing and coping, judging and complaining even when I knew I wanted to feel and think differently. I used to blame others for my unhappiness and my relationships weren’t very loving at all. I had all the knowledge but couldn’t make lasting changes in my life. I actually felt like there must be something wrong with me.

Studying alone doesn’t bring on breakthroughs. You gotta live it. You gotta walk the talk.

But HOW? That’s what I teach you in Masterful Living. How to really live the teachings so you can make lasting changes in your life. We take it step by step together.

Here’s why My Masterful Living Course works.

It offers 3 key components that have helped so many people get the results they desire.

#1 – This is a Structured Year- Long Class with practical tools that work.

One of the main challenges people have is being consistent. Being consistent in your spiritual practice on your own is challenging. Most find it easier and more fun to travel this road with like-minded companions. Just imagine HOW MUCH EASIER IT IS to learn to be consistent when you have consistent support and a proven system that has worked for so many others like you! Follow the steps that are laid out for you and you CANNOT fail!

#2 – You will have ongoing support and guidance from me!

I am here with you every step of the way. I have been right where you are. I felt like it would be impossible for me to become committed enough to actually have lasting healing and transformation at a miraculous pace. I’ve been AMAZED at how well these tools worked for me, and the results others have had are equally amazing. When you work step-by-step with lots of support you can truly heal and transform faster than you would imagine.

#3 – You get support from a Like-Minded Spiritual Community.

In Masterful Living, you get the exact amount of partnership and group support that works best for you, so you learn what it feels like to be loved, guided and carried. You can finally relax into a rhythm of consistent practice and stay in it all year. With support and encouragement YOU WON’T GIVE UP even when you feel like giving up! One of the most beautiful things that happens is: the shame of failing at your spiritual practice falls away because you ARE succeeding.

My Masterful Living Course Includes:

    • MP3 downloads and transcripts of all classes so you never miss a thing (most people prefer to listen on download rather than live)
    • Simple Tools & Practices that build positive habits for deep healing & lasting transformation, so that you can walk step by step building all year long
    • Three detailed, inspiring workbooks – specifically designed to support your growth and keep you on track with doing the deep work (required – one time cost of 144 plus shipping)
    • Prayer Partners for extra support (optional)
    • A Private Facebook group where you can connect with your fellow participants day or night to give and receive support
    • Community Calls each week for authentic dialogue (without me) facilitated by Masterful Living Year 2 & Year 3 students who have done the work, had the healing and expansion, and share from their experience of using the tools
    • Discounted Monthly Counseling Packages to further support your healing and growth.


  • Direct one on one counseling sessions with me! We’ll have 3 sessions during the year where we can discuss your specific challenges and transformations.

What other program does this?

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I am offering all this to you for the cost of a latte a day! That’s right. Just the cost of a latte a day.

Only 127. per month for 12 months!

plus a material fee of 144. plus shipping*

The Curriculum

I create multiple class series designed to go deep and really transform any negative patterns or beliefs that are preventing you from the life you desire. Some of those are:

New Years Intentions
How to Stop Playing Small
Power of Prayer
Developing Intuition & Divine Guidance
Relationship Reboot
Healing Negative Patterns
Manifest From the Heart
How To Be A Love Magnet
Building Trust and Faith
and more…

Wonder What Masterful Living is Like?

Register for one of my preview classes to get a taste of what I offer in the Year-Long Course.

Stop Playing Small Preview Class
Relationship Rescue Preview Class
Fortify Your Faith Preview Class

What People Are Saying About Masterful Living

Everyone has a different starting place. The steps and tools will give you your own unique experience. These are some of the experiences of my students.


God Always Succeeds

Saturday, November 1st, 2014

I used to have a fear of failure and I see that many are stopped in living their deep heart’s desires because they fear their own failure. There is a surefire recipe to avoid failure and it works every time. You are the chef and the main ingredient is God’s Love living through you and as you.

The first thing you start with is your goal. What would you like to accomplish? Let’s say your goal is to have a job you love that pays well. In your recipe, your goal represents the photo of the end result in the cookbook. Your goal is the mental picture.

The main ingredient is your Intention. Make sure your intention is anchored in how you will feel, for instance: My intention is to feel prosperous and fulfilled in the work that I do. Your intention must incorporate the spiritual change you intend to make in how you feel or you’ll never FEEL successful. Keep the Divine out and you have already failed.

The key ingredient is dedicating the benefits of your fulfilled intention to be shared with everyone. Allow yourself to fully embrace the fact that as one is lifted, all are lifted. Here is your opportunity to INTEND to share the benefits of your expansion with all beings.

My intention is to feel prosperous and fulfilled in the work that I do and share the benefits of my expansion with all beings, because I AM One with them.

Now, you’ve brought the Divine into your heart and mind and God will do the work as long as you stay true to your intention. All are fed by your willingness to multiply the loaves and fishes in your life and release the thought of separation forever. God cannot fail, and neither will you.

My intention is to feel prosperous and fulfilled in the work that I do and share the benefits of my expansion with all beings, because I AM One with them. Yes!

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We’re waking up together and I’m so grateful for that!If you’re finding what I’m sharing to be helpful won’t you please share at facebook and twitter let’s other know? Thank you!



Saturday, September 20th, 2014

For years I used to fan the internal flames of upset. I would get angry, hurt, resentful, and frustrated and then take it out on people. It made me feel powerful. In some crazy way, it made me feel alive. I had a reason for living – I was upset! It wasn’t a fun way to live. Not at all.

I didn’t know it, but I was really hurting myself. I would use my thoughts to inflame my emotional body and it was really torturous. Why would I torture myself? The answer is easy: guilt. I felt I deserved to be punished for being unloving.

In my experience of this world, this habit of people punishing themselves with fanning the flames of their upset is the source of most of the unrest in the world and most of the suffering.

I realized that it was extreme unkindness to myself, fanning the flames of judgment and upset. I realized that it was totally optional. That was a life-changing realization.

I decided to be kind to myself. I decided to treat myself like someone precious that I truly loved.

Imagine if YOU stopped allowing yourself to be upset.

What if you really made a commitment to being non-judgmental moment to moment AND you forgave everything from the past as it came up to be healed?

Does getting upset really bring you ANY benefit?
Doesn’t it just make things more challenging?
What if you no longer allowed yourself to fan the flames of upset?
What could you invest that energy in instead? Your healing? Being truly helpful?

It’s really worth contemplating.

Forgiveness is the great anti-inflammatory! Forgiveness IS non-judgment. Forgiveness is Love.

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We’re waking up together and I’m so grateful for that! If you’re finding what I’m sharing to be helpful won’t you please share at facebook and twitter let’s other know? Thank you!